If you lose your virginity to someone, and later you break up...

Vorpy

I don't know what I want, which is why I don't list off things I want in a significant other. Just things that I would like, like them not supporting rape as punishment or using hyperbole on purpose to win arguments. They can dress, look, like and feel any way they want.

curiousTraitor

I kinda want to know what Chagen wants.

Counterclock

I already know what I want ^_^, None of you would be able to guess what though.

All Nines

I don't know everything I want, either. Some things are just about deal breakers if they are or aren't there (size, beauty, and, at the very least, tolerance for my interests are the most important things to me). As for everything else, I can't be sure.

Vorpy

@Counterclock

Juan.

Counterclock

@Vorpy: Not even if we were the last two people on earth .

^_^

Actually, It's Raocow. ^{(Raocow Advertisement Here)}

MillerCross

Juan: Semantics.

Unless my English is failing, I don't think necessities could be related to desire. At least, not by default.

^Love you too.

AHR

It's a semantics debate, Juan. Take my word for it.

Counterclock

@AHR: shouldn't that be "Trust in my opinion" ?

Chagen

"I kinda want to know what Chagen wants."

Last time I did this, people called me really creepy for having such an exacting list.

Counterclock

How do you know you want everything on that list Chagen?

IanExMachina

What was the list again?

Chagen

I never really saved it.

But people were slightly weirded out when I specifically stated that I wanted my possible future girlfriend to be European/White or Japanese.

AHR

...what if it's a chinese girl who can speak japanese?

Or what if it's a dark skinned european? Or a pale skinned African, (like an Afrikaaner). Or a white middle eastern.

Chagen

Fine be me. Or Korean, that's okay.

Moerin

Chagen, you're still a kid.  You're at that point where you think you know what you want, but you really don't.  It's a phase almost everyone goes through, but eventually you'll come to realise that hey, maybe that isn't what you wanted after all.  Or that something else picks up your fancy instead.  Or that you've been mistaken about some things all this time.

Fact is, the world doesn't work the way you seem to think it does.  It's imperfect and cruel and likes to screw you over, especially when you finally get what you thought you wanted all this time.  If you can't handle that, you may as well book your place in the monastery and start your life of celibacy right now. >.>

AHR

Mongol? Siamese? Taiwanese? Thai? Polynesian?

Honestly mate, it just sounds like you don't find the structure of blacks to be attractive.

Chagen

I don't really know much about those countries.

Let's just say "East Asian" and be done with it.

IanExMachina

"Life is unfair [REDACTED]"

RedEyedAbyss

"I make no compromises. I won't ever make compromises when it comes to relationships."

And yet you expect someone to make an endless list of compromises to you. Do you even see spouses as human beings?

Counterclock

Life isn't unfair, when you actually realize that it never set out to be fair in the first place.

Moerin

Never said it was unfair.  Just said it's a collosal jackass. >.>

Doesn't mean there can't be some parts of it that make it all worthwhile.

Counterclock

Oh, Some parts can make it worthwhile? what parts are you talking about? ^_^

RedEyedAbyss

It also depends on how you treat it. A solipsistic approach to life only brings misery.

Forzare

"I make no compromises. I won't ever make compromises when it comes to relationships."

Have fun being forever alone.

Wicked223

Depends on what the compromise is.

RedEyedAbyss

For reference, these are the compromises he expects from a woman.

AHR

So he wants a clone?

How boring.

Counterclock

Chagen on Chagen action:

>_<

AHR

XD I approve.