My sexuality (and sexuality in general)

Chagen

Woo, time to make a serious thread.

Over my ban period, I came to the realization that my sexuality has some serious problems. It was already pretty out there, but not too far out. Then, I sorta "gained" a new "interest" (more like, "realized I had this kink that I had been denying existed") and I was pretty damn scared (no, before you ask, it's not pedophilia or necrophilia or something way, WAY f'ed up like that).

This makes me wonder: sexuality is really goddamn confusing. Sometimes, I wonder why we even have it. Add gender and sex into the mix and the whole thing becomes a massive web of confusing threads. And no one, not even the scientists, are sure what the fuck is going on in our brains.

On one hand, my sexuality makes me unique. As each other persons' sexualities make them unique. 

On the other hand, homo/transphobia, sexism, and a whole host of other things have spawned from the Trifecta of Sexuality--Gender--Sex. So, is it really worth it all in the end?

....I'm not even sure where I'm going with this. I'm just navel-gazing at this point.

ClockworkUniverse

Sometimes, I wonder why we even have it.

Well...if we didn't have it at all, we wouldn't exist

IanExMachina

^

In effect we have it so we can 'have it'.

Bob

^^Hypothetically speaking, we could still exist.

Chagen

But does it have to be so confusing?

IanExMachina

@Chagen

What was the kink you realised you had?

Chagen

.....I'm not sure I'd like to reveal that just yet.

IanExMachina

Fair enough.

As long as it is legal though.

Nyktos

As far as I know, there are not any fetishes it is illegal to have in the US.

Chagen

It is.

I think.

I'm pretty sure the US would file any porn under it as illegal under "obscenity" laws until a few years ago. Maybe they still do, I don't know.

Bob

^Snuff? Voyeurism? Zoophilia?

Chagen

No. 

Waltzy

>Voyeurism

mmmmm

Bob

OH MY GOD you want to fuck your brother don't you.

It's okay, you can tell me. I won't judge.

...Much.

Chagen

"OH MY GOD you want to fuck your brother don't you"

My brother is a high school dropout bum who abuses his girlfriend and just raped her.

Don't. Fucking. Bring. Him. Up.

Ever again.

(sorry, my family is just....trying to figure out what to do)

ninjaclown

Just a friendly note, if this turns into a "let's bug Chagen" thread, I will lock it down until further notice. I am confident you won't though.

Big Brother is watching.

Vivi

Water sports? Coprophilia?

Chagen

"Coprophilia"

oh fuck howd you guess

Bob

Chagen, ninja: Jeez, sorry! I didn't know. Sorry to hear that. :<

^...

Well, it fits with the diaper fetish. At least it's consistent.

ClockworkUniverse

Honestly, fetishes on the internet squick me ever sense someone claimed to have a scaphism fetish.

Bob

He was lying, INUH. Stop taking Tzetze seriously.

ClockworkUniverse

Yeah, but that doesn't mean it doesn't make other fetishes less squicky by the very thought.

Bob

I've got a beard fetish. >:]

GLORIOUSLeader

Then I suppose neckbeards get you into a massive tizzy.

Bob

That's like telling someone with thing for curves that they must get off to pieces of string. Really gross, poorly groomed pieces of string lying in their mothers' basements.

Which is to say, eww.

RedEyedAbyss

To think, my fetish is simply "human skin". Not everyone's is confusing.

MillerCross

To think, my fetish is simply "human skin". Not everyone's is confusing.

Oh hay, Buffalo Bill

Bob

Huh, never would've suspected Ed Gein as an IJBMer.

Nyktos

@Chagen: Wait, didn't you admit to being into that ages ago?

Counterclock

So Bob has a thing for the bearded lady?

Who knew.

Probably Juan.

Chagen

Nyktos:

Never underestimate sexual repression, denial, and Cognitive Dissonance.