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My plans keep falling through.

NovaNova
edited 2011-07-18 02:07:04 in Meatspace
If you must eat a phoenix, boil it, do not roast it. This only encourages their mischievous habits.
This is getting really, really annoying.
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  • BobBob
    Such as?
  • CounterclockCounterclock
    Belief
    That's sad to hear Cygan, is there anyway we could possibly help?
  • NovaNova
    edited 2011-07-18 02:10:47
    If you must eat a phoenix, boil it, do not roast it. This only encourages their mischievous habits.
    I was meant to go down to Social Services today.

    I couldn't, because the car broke down and by the time I walked there it was shut.

    ^ Don't think so.
  • CounterclockCounterclock
    Belief
    D:

    Are you able to go there tomorrow?
  • NovaNova
    If you must eat a phoenix, boil it, do not roast it. This only encourages their mischievous habits.
    Nope. School goes back tomorrow.
  • WaltzyWaltzy
    That's terrible news. D: I'm really so sorry to hear that.

    Is there any way at all to go after school? You need to get out of that situation. :<
  • NovaNova
    If you must eat a phoenix, boil it, do not roast it. This only encourages their mischievous habits.
    Not really. It's about a 40-minute walk from school, and as I can't go until 3:30 and it closes at 4...
  • WaltzyWaltzy
    Is there any way to talk to the school alumni and see about getting in contact with someone that can help from that place?

    I'm sorry, this is probably redundant and you've most likely thought to do this already and/or is something you would've done by now if you could.

    I'm just worried. *huggle*
  • NovaNova
    If you must eat a phoenix, boil it, do not roast it. This only encourages their mischievous habits.
    The school can't help. It's quite annoying, but they're not allowed to inquire into y personal life unless there are physical signs of abuse.

    -hug-

    I just need to wait... more days.
  • WaltzyWaltzy
    That is a terribly stupid policy, good god.

    If I were you and the situation is that serious, I'd say "fuck it" and just cut class a little early. Normally I'd never even consider such a thing but your safety is what's most important.
  • NovaNova
    If you must eat a phoenix, boil it, do not roast it. This only encourages their mischievous habits.
    I would, but... Bah.

    Complicated social situations, but it boils down to I'm safe in class/in the library, and not safe if I walk out early and go down towards town.
  • WaltzyWaltzy
    What is it that's keeping you? Just a dangerous part of town at a certain time of day or something more?


  • SnappySnappy
    I want your hard, feathery cock, Bird Boy.
    Call the police?
  • NovaNova
    If you must eat a phoenix, boil it, do not roast it. This only encourages their mischievous habits.
    Nah. It's the other kids at school who like to sip wander around there, too.

    And protip: If most of the kids in your school are transphobic, it's a good idea not to wander in drunk one morning and blurt out that you're trans.

    @Snappy: Did. Didn't stop anything.
  • SnappySnappy
    I want your hard, feathery cock, Bird Boy.
    What happened when you called the police? What did you say?
  • NovaNova
    If you must eat a phoenix, boil it, do not roast it. This only encourages their mischievous habits.
    Which time? School/home situation?
  • WaltzyWaltzy
    Well...I think if you're going to be in danger either at home or seeking help, your best bet is to take the chance doing whatever you can to seek help. :< At least this way there's a possibility of improvement.
  • NovaNova
    If you must eat a phoenix, boil it, do not roast it. This only encourages their mischievous habits.
    I am.

    The thing is, my social life is... well, about as good as you'd expect from a trans kid in a transphobic town.

    And when a lot of the kids you live near, and that hang around downtown, are very rough-and-rowdy types, it gets dangerous pretty quick. And I'm limited to my own resources in stopping them. I can call the police on them, but I can't afford legal fees at all, so there's very little chance of them actually receiving any punishment for it- so they look upon being called out on it as a badge of pride.
  • WaltzyWaltzy
    If it's dangerous enough at home to need outside assistance though, there's nothing left for you to do. :<

    Does every single kid know about you? If they're going to be in school maybe just not going to school and heading straight for the social services place is your best bet.

    I'm trying to figure the lesser of two evils, since you're definitely between a rock and a hard place, but of course you know your situation best. I apologize if I'm very little help. If anything I'm here for you morally. <3
  • NovaNova
    If you must eat a phoenix, boil it, do not roast it. This only encourages their mischievous habits.
    I know. No matter what I do, it's dangerous for me.

    What I think I'll end up aiming for is to go on Friday, when I go shopping anyway.

    I'll get to pick up my new washing machine and dryer, then, and when I get back from reporting her, she'll have left to go to her new house.

    The main issue I have a problem with is that she's taking my little brother with her. Keep in mind, this is a woman with a track record of never washing, never cleaning, never cooking, never taking people to school, never going shopping, never buying food.

    As long as she can call her fuckbuddies over whenever, buy enough coffee to keep her happy, buy enough cigarettes to keep her happy, and buy enough takeaway pizza to feed herself, she doesn't care.

    Wait, that's not true. She cares if the house is not clean. Sh just won't lift a finger to do it herself, but will take it out on us if it's not done.

    I can't leave my brother in a house like that. That's why I need to get down there and report her as soon as possible.
  • SnappySnappy
    I want your hard, feathery cock, Bird Boy.
    Tomorrow is as soon as possible.
  • NovaNova
    If you must eat a phoenix, boil it, do not roast it. This only encourages their mischievous habits.
    Tomorrow is also dangerous for my health if I get caught skipping.

    And while I don't want to leave him with her for any longer than possible, I also want to not have to visit hospital again.
  • WaltzyWaltzy
    It sounds like a plan then. If you can report her on Friday in relative safety, you can hopefully let them know she still has your brother and that you're both being mistreated.

    I'll be keeping you in my thoughts sweetie~. <3
  • MadassAlexMadassAlex
    One foot in front of the other, every day.
    That sucks, Cygan. If you were in Melbourne, I'd lend you a hand with all this stuff. :/
  • NovaNova
    If you must eat a phoenix, boil it, do not roast it. This only encourages their mischievous habits.
    Thanks ^_^
  • WaltzyWaltzy
    Likewise if you were in Edmonds. Even though I'm probably too scrawny to be much help in chasing away anyone who tried messing with you. OTL

    It's frustrating when you care so much for a friend and there's very little you can do for them.
  • NovaNova
    If you must eat a phoenix, boil it, do not roast it. This only encourages their mischievous habits.
    OTOH, I can always bring my birthday present along.

    But that's illegal.
  • NovaNova
    If you must eat a phoenix, boil it, do not roast it. This only encourages their mischievous habits.
    Sorry, didn't have anything else to say >_>;
  • MadassAlexMadassAlex
    One foot in front of the other, every day.
    Wouldn't blame you.

    It's not like I've never wanted to take my sword to someone. :/
  • NovaNova
    If you must eat a phoenix, boil it, do not roast it. This only encourages their mischievous habits.
    I wish I still had my sword, instead of a pissy dagger.
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