How easily the mind can be swayed by sex drive.

glennmagusharvey

^^ Solution: Develop a fetish for at least one non-procreative practice.

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There is nothing nice in wild nights of pleasure.

Emphasis on wild.

MoeDantes

I already collect video games. That's about as non-procreative as you can get.

glennmagusharvey

A fetish practice I said.  One that you can sexually arouse yourself using.

Also, I never liked wild nights of pleasure either.

InsanityAddict

Meh, I'm in a frat, there aren't too many wild escapades, but the gossip topic of who did it with whom moves pretty fast. No pregnancies or STDs so far(4 years since I became a member), drama is also minimal(and that mostly has to do with people approaching sex with a different view of whether it's casual or not), most of the sex is within relationships and the few bros who really get around get themselves checked at the clinic regularly(this is all on top of rubbers and morning-after pills, which is common sense anyway).

MoeDantes

I think we have different ideas of what "wild night of pleasure" means.

I meant it as "friends coming home with a girl they just met, they had a tons of go-around and are convinced they've found TRUE LOVE!!!! Cut to a couple of months later, the girl is pregnant, they've realized they don't really like each other, and they both are having second thoughts."

I have no idea what you guys are thinking about.

InsanityAddict

>Tru wuv on the night they first met

It isn't the sex that's to be blamed, it's the fact that those peeps are emotional immature as fuck.

MillerCross

This thread is the funniest thing ever.

I just wanted you guys to know that you have an audience. You may continue.

MoeDantes

Admittedly, sometimes it does develop over time. But even then, usually after belly kicks in they realize they don't like each other as much as they think they do.

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I meant it as "any stupid action where you're on some drugs or are just that insane which causes particularly unwanted side effects for anyone trying to follow the law and not get the police on their sorry asses" though in this specific case it is referring to stupid sexual actions. Basically FUCKING THE SHIT OUT OF OTHERS and getting that shit all over you and others too. That smell isn't going away for a while and cleaning it up isn't gonna be easy.

I don't really see how yours in particular is a wild night of pleasure though. It sounds more like a "so-called love at first sight so lets be stupid" event. I just thought you meant casual sex in general rather than that specific sort, because plenty of people don't consider their one night stands to be love. Or perhaps that apparent in-heat thing that I am not sure if is true or not but i've become convinced that the more I don't like something about the world I live in there's a higher chance it is true.

InsanityAddict

^^That's not much different than the first situation. "This is love, let's fuck without a rubber because we're more connected that way, and if babby appears we'll keep it cos we'll be together 4eva anyway." Still emotionally immature as fuck.

MoeDantes

The situations my friends get into have taught me an important lesson: the yardstick for quality in a relationship is how long it can survive without sex even entering the picture.

If the woman wants to leave in four months because you're not giving her any, go ahead and dump her (that's "dump" not "hump")

If you're still living together after three years, and actually hanging out and doing things together... then its time to pull down the pants.

glennmagusharvey

Yeah, "wild night of pleasure" seems to imply casual sex up the wazoo, between multiple pairs of partners.  What you are thinking of seems to be a monogamous relationship going too far before the two people are ready to deal with the consequences--something I wouldn't necessarily call a "wild night of pleasure", though I guess it could be one if they so chose.

InsanityAddict

^^That's the yardstick of how well people match each other in a relationship: their ideas about sex are the same. It's only a minor aspect within the whole spectrum of relationships.

Chagen

I would agree with Dantes if he calmed down a little bit.

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I am not seeing why you would not agree with him on the basis of him not being calm in your eyes.

MillerCross

The situations my friends get into have taught me an important lesson: the yardstick for quality in a relationship is how long it can survive without sex even entering the picture.

That's not necessarily true. A relationship works if the two parties are happy with each other. Whether this is achieved through copious amounts of sex or whatever does not matter in the slightest, imo.

If the woman wants to leave in four months because you're not giving her any, go ahead and dump her (that's "dump" not "hump")

Sex, unless stated otherwise before getting head on into a relationship, is a big part of a relationship and an special kind of interaction between two romantically involved people, if they value it highly enough. Mind you, this is the kind of stuff that is preferably established before entering into a relationship.

If you're still living together after three years, and actually hanging out and doing things together... thenits time to pull down the pants.

...that's a bit of a ridiculous standard. If it works for you, that's fine, go ahead. Hope you meet a girl with so minimum a sex drive that you can accomplish that without her having sex with another man (Or woman. You never know if you hooked up with a bisexual. :P) but it is incredibly unrealistic to expect most relationship to work like that, let alone a so-called "succesful" one.

Crimson

>I've seen what happens to people who have wild nights of pleasure. It
has never turned out well for them, and I don't want to go down that
same road.

>I meant it as "friends coming home with a girl they just met, they had a
tons of go-around and are convinced they've found TRUE LOVE!!!! Cut
to a couple of months later, the girl is pregnant, they've realized they
don't really like each other, and they both are having second
thoughts."

If that's the reason, why not find a girlfriend based on some actual emotional connection, and spend your time (and have sex) in a more subdued fashion.

Complete celibacy sounds like an unnecessarily extreme solution, not to mention reeks of moral high-horsing.

Chagen

"Complete celibacy sounds like an unnecessarily extreme solution, not to mention reeks of moral high-horsing. "

What?

I remain celibate because I have no interest in sexual intercourse right now. At all. 

Malkavian

A werewolf girl appeared in my cart a few weeks ago. I think it's clear that we both have feelings for each other, but things are complicated so we're taking it slow for now.

Crimson

No, I mean in conjunction with the reasons Dantes has given. If you have no interest, then you have no interest, nothing wrong with that.

MillerCross

NOBODY CARES, HOLO.

but I see your point, Malk. 

Chagen

"A werewolf girl appeared in my cart a few weeks ago. I think it's clear that we both have feelings for each other, but things are complicated so we're taking it slow for now."

No matter how you wish, you're not Lawrence, Malk.

Malkavian

Just dash all my hopes right there, why don't you Chagen? ;_;

InsanityAddict

You should be glad for that in this economy.

MillerCross

^^ Meh, you can always be Shinji. /Running Gag.

glennmagusharvey

> Mind you, this is the kind of stuff that is preferably established before entering into a relationship.

Depends on your definition of "relationship".  Some people use it to refer to only the romance part.

Forzare

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That Shinji doesn't fuck a bitch though. Well it's not mentioned if he did, anyway. I think.

And in one of the routes he outright gets saved for being...I don't know. Why was he saved again?

AHR

I am unsure what's going on in this thread, but I am feeling as if I am in a situation of deja vu, when my sister expressed confusion at sex that wasn't vaginal.