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/adv/ is worrying the hell out of me (please, stifle your laughter)
DISCLAIMER PART 1: Yes, I'm aware it's a 4chan board. Yes, I know that there are some trolls and some misogynistic imbeciles on that board (I still ponder on just how much of what's posted there is horseshit). Yes, I know I'm probably irrational.
DISCLAIMER PART 2: Despite the tone of the OP, I'm not trying to draw sympathy or anything. Just hoping to maybe get some advice from friends, and from a board that's
not full of backwards sexism, and getting something off my chest. Now that that's out of the way:
Knowing that some of those people posting actually have some sort of anecdotal evidence/life stories to back themselves up, I'm wondering just how much of it is true, and I'm starting to fret. I wouldn't bitch about my problem over there because I don't want to know how they'd answer, for any reason, and because they've heard it before.
This thread is draining me emotionally. Sadly, I'm seeing a lot of myself in these foreveralone types. The only real advantage that I have is that I'm younger than most of them.
I was planning to wait until college before trying a relationship, but I'm starting to think college might be too late. Since I still have a year here, I was thinking about getting to know someone at school better, but I've already met the people I'm interested in, and I feel like suddenly inserting myself into some of these groups would be forced and be a dead giveaway.
Wat do, IJBM?
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And my birthday is soon.
foreveralone.jpg
Moving on to the next point: you have a life, then why do you fall into the background in groups if you don't like that? Do you find talking a hassle? Do you feel you'd bore others with telling them about yourself?
How many friends do you really need before it stops adding anything? And most important of all, what are you looking for in a girl? Not an idealized set of characteristics, just someone you wouldn't mind losing your virginity to. First determine that, then see if anything in your perimeter fits the mold.
Explination plz
>ugh, creeper
>irrelevant gender wars
>society needs to change
>i'm in a similar conundrum but have nothing to contribute
>derp i don't get how this can happen
>work on yourself, OP
Predictable and completely useless as /adv/ normally is.
4chan has an advice board? Isn't that like appointing a crazy hermit who lives in the woods to Secretary of Transportation?
I'd say more like employing an openly misanthropic jerkass with multiple murder convictions as a therapist, myself.
Of course, spending too much time on 4chan, or indeed most messageboards and fora will increase your chances of becoming an openly misanthropic jerkass with multiple murder convictions anyway.