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People who tell me I'm smart
I have no yardstick of measurement and I really have no idea what they mean by it.
Also, I sometimes think they're lying for some reason.
Comments
What's the context behind that label?
When I do things other people see as smart my reaction is usually 'wait, you don't do this?'
People thought I was some sort of prodigy."
I have no yardstick of measurement and I really have no idea what they mean by it.
Yeah, I think that some of the other comments in this thread about how smartness depends on the context support your idea there.
I think it can be kind of odd to be complimented for something that is seemingly a continuous character trait (like intelligence) because you do not always feel like that. Basically, I feel like you can probably figure out or justify praise based on specific actions you take, but when someone says you are smart, kind, and such, you may be more inclined to not believe it because you do not always feel that way.
That is why I generally think sticking to talking about certain actions or accomplishments when giving out a compliment can help ensure that it is actually worthwhile.
Would you prefer this reaction?