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Sex toys for women are sexy/empowering/good. Sex toys for men are creepy/'bad'. (NSFW)
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Not even classy porn, with a story and everything?Meanwhile my mother would consider that as an extremely harsh and insulting accusation that crosses the line. She hasn't changed much since.
Definitely.
Might have been connected to Buddhism...
Let's ask Aondeug!
If a woman/gay man is buying a sex toy for their own use, it's usually to shove into their body.
A straight man's sex toys are mostly something for him to shove himself into.
The former case can be seen as those individuals getting something that puts them in a submissive role for sexual acts, and the latter case is for what could be seen as a dominant role.
If one would imagine both scenarios, the idea of someone, especially a woman, pleasuring themselves in something typically thought of as a "submissive" way vs. a guy going and doing something "dominant" like getting something so he can penetrate it, which would be more favorably received by society? A man using sex toys can be warped as "ugh he's just gotta stick his dick in something to be macho" by less open-minded individuals.
(Sorry for the late answer) It's the thing about how women should be pure and reserved, while men should FUCK the SHIT out of lots of women. This is translates as such for masturbation.
The root of this is probably the notion that male sexuality is inherently threatening and therefore weird and creepy unless expressed within the normal family set-up, combined with a dose of the idea that loners are dangerous weirdos (and that if you're not married/ in a relationship, you're a loner).
Having railed against such social prejudice, I have to say that I once watched a documentary about guys who owned sex dolls. Jesus, they were creepy, and not in a way I could imagine a woman who owned a lot of vibrators being creepy. So I'm in two minds about this kind of thing, to be honest.
The fair comparison to vibrators would be fleshlights, I guess.
The idea of having a relationship with a fake person is definitely creepy. Actually, there's an element of this even in situations where it's socially acceptable e.g. kids' dolls or ventiloquists' dummies often turn up in horror movies.
Having said that, if I bought some kind of male sex aid I think that would definitely be a - "What the hell has become of my life?" - moment for me.
A tad late, but the idea that fapping(or at least letting it shoot out) wastes life-energy is Taoistic.