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Seeing a Girl Who Has A Boyfriend

TheConductorTheConductor
edited 2011-05-23 03:29:31 in General
I recently started dating a gorgeous, sexy, adventurous, nerdy, sweet, kind, non-judgmental girl.

She's brilliant. You know...except for her boyfriend. I know I shouldn't do it, she keep saying she wants to leave him, though I know she wont.

I really should have waited till she was single.

But I didn't.

Bad Conductor, bad.

Comments

  • InsanityAddictInsanityAddict
    Diet NEET
    Not classy, but it's not much use suddenly getting a case of the morals since the damage is already done. Does he know? If not, that might sooner or later drive him to break up with her. Being there for her during the break-up phase can help a lot with bonding with her.

    You run the risk of her sooner or later cheating on you, but if you can accept that, just roll with it. Just don't get too emotionally invested.

    Disregard this advice entirely if you're good friends with the boyfriend in question.
  • SchitzoSchitzo
    They're somethin' else.
    Take her. But don't be surprised if she starts cheating with you.
  • TheConductorTheConductor
    Nah, he doesn't know. And yeah I know she'll probably end up cheating on ME too, so I'm not getting too attached, just having fun.

    And no, I don't know him at all. Never even met him.
  • SchitzoSchitzo
    They're somethin' else.
    Be prepared to fight him to the death if he comes for you.
  • AXavierBAXavierB
    Mm, I can't support helping someone cheat. Cheating is a berserk button of mine so I'm going to wish her a grisly demise. :V
  • GelzoGelzo
    edited 2011-05-23 04:55:08
    Pony Sleuth
    Yeah, I wouldn't be interested in someone like that. It doesn't reflect well on her empathy or sense of self-control. I'm not trying to be a moralfag here, but... I don't see what the appeal of a relationship with someone who'd do that is unless there's a significant physical aspect to it.

    Of course, even if there was an opportunity for sex and I didn't have moral qualms about the whole thing, I'd probably just not bother. I'm pretty satisfied with how life is going for me, and I don't have the strongest libido at this point, so having a girlfriend just to satisfy it would probably be more trouble than it's worth. But, that could just be sour grapes, I guess.

    I dunno, I guess I usually take the long-term view with these sorts of things.
  • LongfellowLongfellow
    La vie en rose
    Bad Longfellow, bad :p
  • AHRAHR
    If she's willing to cheat on him, she's willing to cheat on you.
  • IanExMachinaIanExMachina
    I am Dr. Ned who is totally not Dr. Zed in disguise.
    Mm, I can't support helping someone cheat. Cheating is a berserk button of mine so I'm going to wish her a grisly demise. :V

    So no blame on the other person even if they know what they are doing as well?


    :/
  • MorvenMorven
    Child of Darkness
    @Ian: I generally feel the one who has made commitments and is breaking them is the one making the moral faux pas.  It's not other peoples' job to police that person's commitments.
  • BobBob
    What Gelzo, AHR and some other people said.
  • AXavierBAXavierB
    ^^^I already said I don't support helping someone cheat either. However most of the responsibility falls on the one who's actually in a relationship to have some self-control.

    Of course, I don't know anything about this girl. It could be that she's cheating because her boyfriend is an asshole and she just doesn't have the heart to dump him.
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