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No, this is not about the wangst thread. Do not make it about the wangst thread. The wangst thread consists of people who WANT help, WANT advice.
What bugs me is when people analyze others through internet interaction, and superficially gives some sort of...conclusion.
Like if someone really likes X show, and only posts in those threads, and someone decides thus, they must be some aspergery autistic person.
It just strikes me as...bizarre. I didn't think things like this actually happened, until it happened to me, and now it bugs me.
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'Like if someone really likes X show, and only posts in those threads, and someone decides thus, they must be some aspergery autistic person."
I honestly find it rather offensive that people constantly try to pin the "autism" label on anyone showing the slightest leaning towards the stereotype.
You know I was just using an example, right? >_<
Had the same thing, got placed in the nebulous PDD-NOS group, which is even more useless. (in b4 autismal spectrum rollcall).
Anyhow, armchair psychology widely verges from labelling with disorders to actually analyzing a person's written behaviour plus anecdotes and trying to pin underlying motives for actions. The latter's effectiveness is greatly cut down because people always extrapolate circumstantial behaviour to the rest of the person, but it's not bad in itself. Even if your shot in the dark is completely wrong, it forces a person to examine their own behaviour for an alternate explanation.
as they don't have the required knowledge/experience/qualifications.
This, not to mention even professionals are not infallible, and diagnostic methods are also not infallible, so it's good to get an opinion from a variety of people, through a variety of methods.
Let's look at the DSM for Asperger Syndrome:
I am also not a happy camper of the indiscriminate observation of behaviors without considering their origins. Just because a child exhibits a behavior does not mean that that behavior is intrinsic--it could also be a sign of a more extrinsic problem such as a limited upbringing or a poor family life.
Many of these symptoms also seem to label a child's natural curiosity with the world around her as inherently abnormal. How do you tell the difference, by the DSM, between a curious child and an impaired one?
But the incredibly high number of people being diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome and/or Autism suggests to me that standards are not being met and people are being falsely diagnosed. I see no reason to believe that an "epidemic" of Asperger Syndrome actually exists, and instead all I can see is an epidemic of diagnosis alone.
Although I'm not a doctor, I am a lawyer, and I suspect that diagnosing by the book for them is probably as bad an idea as advising a client based purely on a legal textbook would be for us, even though legal rules are a lot more rigid than clinical guidelines. Circumstances alter cases, in both professions, and ultimately you have to use your judgement.
That's why lawyers don't tell you you will win your case, only that you have a reasonable chance of success, and doctors won't tell you the treatment will work - just that it has a high percentage chance of working.