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How do I not screw this up?

ViviVivi
edited 2011-09-08 13:52:00 in Meatspace
$80+ per session
New School year, right? So, there is this very attractive Swiss girl that I met today named Yamina. She seems very nice, and she's only lived in a America for a month. For some reason, I've been really crap with girls lately.

She's a completely blank slate, relationship wise and this could either go up or go way down...

 

Comments

  • IanExMachinaIanExMachina
    I am Dr. Ned who is totally not Dr. Zed in disguise.
    Talk to her like a human, be nice, be yourself.
  • ViviVivi
    $80+ per session
    Don't bring your European mumbo jumbo in here Ian!


  • WaltzyWaltzy
    Tell her up front, "Hey, I think you look cute and I think it'd be really cool to hang out sometime and get to know each other" and invite her to [activity of choice].
  • MillerCrossMillerCross
    You can change. You can.
    "Hey, wanna pork in the bathroom? I'll even pee in your chest ;D"

    The emoticon is important.
  • ViviVivi
    $80+ per session
    X_X

    That would require more points in my Charisma/Charm

    All of mine are in Academics/Creativity...
  • WaltzyWaltzy
    Then replace "look cute" with "seem pretty cool".
  • IanExMachinaIanExMachina
    I am Dr. Ned who is totally not Dr. Zed in disguise.
    Pfft fine American advice:

    Talk about army knives and yodelling then pull out a gun and shoot the wall til the bullet holes spell out 'U R A BABE'

    *Rolleyes*
  • ViviVivi
    $80+ per session
    Hmmm...

    You know what I'll just say it.

    But I'm worried that it might be too soon. I only talked to her for the first time today.
  • MillerCrossMillerCross
    You can change. You can.
    OK, serious advice. Just talk to her, don't even compliment her or whatever. Get to know her, what she likes, etc etc.

    No point in calling her cute right away, and unless you're on the internet, it comes across as creepy/sad. 


  • ViviVivi
    $80+ per session
    Thanks. I'll do that.
  • ChagenChagen
    [tɕagɛn]
    So how do you do that when you can't carry a conversation to save your life?

    (Admittedly, my larger problem is how I automatically expect rejection)
  • MillerCrossMillerCross
    You can change. You can.
    Learn to carry a conversation, duh.

    Also, don't have to talk to her alone. I've learned sometimes that there's nothing better to knowing a girl than to talk with her friends and then getting to know her that way.

    Also, don't care if you're rejected. Life goes on if a pretty girl doesn't like you that way.
  • IanExMachinaIanExMachina
    I am Dr. Ned who is totally not Dr. Zed in disguise.
    > Life goes on if a pretty girl doesn't like you that way.
  • MillerCrossMillerCross
    You can change. You can.
    But...but...

    it's not in the sea. ._.
  • ClockworkUniverseClockworkUniverse
    OOOooooOoOoOOoo, I'm a ghoOooOooOOOost!
    He probably obtained it from the sea.
  • ViviVivi
    $80+ per session
    I'm trying to not do the whole "put her on a pedestal thing".
  • MillerCrossMillerCross
    You can change. You can.
    Indeed. Important part in anything: Don't invest yourself emotionally that much at first. That way madness lies.
  • GelzoGelzo
    Pony Sleuth
    Isn't Vivi a girl?

    I was under the impression that homosexuals tend to not have as much of an opportunity to be picky. Do you know if she even likes girls?
  • ViviVivi
    edited 2011-09-08 15:03:04
    $80+ per session
    I'm male, dood.
  • GelzoGelzo
    Pony Sleuth
    Okay, well, you're probably fucked.
  • ViviVivi
    $80+ per session
    ;_;

    why?
  • GelzoGelzo
    Pony Sleuth
    Sorry, I thought it was funny.

    Anyway, I guess I can't really give much in the way of good advice. I've only ever had one girlfriend and I wasn't really that into her anyway. Everything else I've fucked up royally.
  • SchitzoSchitzo
    They're somethin' else.
    Vivi:

    Say "Hi". Simple as that.

    Introduce yourself, ask for her name.

    Look for a conversation starter (book she's reading, shirt she's wearing etc), and go from there.
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