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People marginilising interactions between people and their relationships just because they're online
It's just sickening to me for some reason it lacks logic behind it I was never able to seperate the two ever. I take them equally as seriously and I don't know why people are so quick to dismiss it "oh it's just someone you met online you obviously couldn't be real friends with them they were just text on a screen". Fuck that. I'm sick of this issue cropping up i'm sick of how people treat it. How is everybody able to be this callus? To regard someone as an unperson just because they have never seen eachothers faces?
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I just don't think that you can know someone online as well as you can know them offline. There are a thousand different kinds of subtle facial and body cues that can tell you more about a person. There are smells, sometimes even tastes that let you know what kind of person you're interacting with. The way they touch you is also important.
Online, you're all on the same level. The only differences between us are our opinions and our writing styles. Online interactions have some advantages, but I think that you have to know someone both online and offline in order to truly understand them.
Unless you've got weapons-grade autism you'll notice, even if it's only subconscious. I don't look people in the eyes either - the eyes are the doors to the soul, after all - but I notice the way their eyes move, the way they use their bodies to express themselves. I notice their scent and can know what it tells me.
It just takes training to consciously note those sorts of things.
Unless you tell people you are one, like LouieW did.
Works best when you're an adorable little doggie.