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In a Relationship, How Long Would you Wait to Have Sex?

edited 2011-05-30 17:19:25 in Meatspace
If I truly love and respect the person I'm seeing, I'm willing to wait until they are ready -- whether that be the first, date, 3 months, a year or even marriage. I ask this because I'm curious to what the other users have to say, as women usually are much more likely to want to wait longer to have sex, while men are more driven to seek it sooner. I welcome any worthwhile responses.

Comments

  • edited 2011-05-30 17:20:15
    Tableflipper
    Wait, weren't you a sockpuppet?

    I'd wait until they say they accept me after knowing relatively enough about me.
  • edited 2011-05-30 17:36:34
    Diet NEET
    Meh, I wouldn't care about the timespan so much as about the reason for waiting.

    If it is because she thinks sex is icky or no fun at all due to previous experiences, I'm not the right person to help her over it.

    If it's because she's afraid I'm only in it for the sex, I'd understand the trust issues, and I'd be willing to wait until she's ready for it, since that sounds like someone whose issues I can deal with it.

    If it's due to religious reasons, it'd be fun to see how long I can tease her before she snaps.
  • $80+ per session
    "Meh, I wouldn't care about the timespan so much as about the reason for waiting."


  • Glaives are better.

    Thirty seconds.


    That's about how long it takes for me to fully disrobe.

  • "I'm willing to wait until they are ready"

    How charitable of you. If it were me, I'd rape her first chance I get.
  • Till shade is gone, till water is gone, into the Shadow with teeth bared, screaming defiance with the last breath, to spit in Sightblinder’s eye on the last Day.
    12.4566666 (repeating) seconds.
  • edited 2011-05-30 19:44:20
    Has friends besides tanks now
    I would probably wait until she offered, or until we've naturally progressed through every other conceivable step that generally comes before that. I don't think I would feel comfortable asking to have sex, much as I would want it.
  • You can change. You can.
    Depends on whether I like her enough to wait and think that the wait in question is worth it. Not just in terms of good sex, but in terms of whether having sex would make the relationship better/more intimate on the first place.
  • If you must eat a phoenix, boil it, do not roast it. This only encourages their mischievous habits.
    How long would you wait?

    Until both partners are ready for it.
  • "Until both partners are ready for it."
  • Creature - Florida Dragon Turtle Human
    Kisume, why are you thinking of sex?
  • I'm not sticking it in anyone I'm not wholly ready to settle down with.
  • When in Turkey, ROCK THE FUCK OUT
    Question: I wanto make many smexs w mi lovly Canadian gf, but i dont no how. can some1 help plz? kthxbai
  • Creature - Florida Dragon Turtle Human
  • I don't bother with anyone who treat sex as "serious business".

    Acceptable excuses include "Meh, don't feel like it" and "Wouldn't you rather play Dynasty Warriors?"
    Unacceptable excuses include anything to do with not being ready or waiting until ______ for sex.

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