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Being with a good looking girl...

SchitzoSchitzo
edited 2011-05-13 03:21:35 in General
They're somethin' else.
And realizing, knowing, that you and her have no chemistry whatsoever. Especially if it's a friend of yours. You begin to question why the two of you are even hanging out in the first place if you can't even enjoy each other's company.

Comments

  • GelzoGelzo
    Pony Sleuth
    I don't think I ever understood the term "chemistry".
  • SchitzoSchitzo
    They're somethin' else.
    As vague as it sounds, if she feels like home. If being around her makes you feel comfortable.
  • InsanityAddictInsanityAddict
    Diet NEET
    How often does this occur around the same girl? Did/do you have a crush on her you still haven't gotten over/confessed? Is it a manifestation of angst for not having a relationship, or is it just plain awkward because you feel intimdate by her looks?
  • SchitzoSchitzo
    They're somethin' else.
    At first it was a crush, but I soon acknowledged it's a pointless endeavor to pursue.

    But I keep getting invited by the person, personally, only to be ignored when I'm actually there with her.

    Yeah.
  • glennmagusharveyglennmagusharvey
    Creature - Florida Dragon Turtle Human
    What are you doing with this person?

    Are you on dates with her or are you just in some sort of common-cause activity, such as carpooling, being in class, volunteering, etc.?
  • NyktosNyktos
    edited 2011-05-13 13:23:08
    a little muffled
    @Gelzo:
    I don't think I ever understood the term "chemistry".
    It's the study of chemical substances, duh.
  • SchitzoSchitzo
    edited 2011-05-13 15:07:09
    They're somethin' else.
    Just hanging out, really. School on the side. I'd like to talk to the person, more than anything, but she can't even do that. It sort of dawns on me she's also not that bright.  ._.

    What am I supposed to do, then, decline these invitations?
  • VorpyVorpy
    ☭Unstoppable Sex Goddess☭
    This is one thing I found out and lived by "You could find the person that is perfect for you in every way, likes everything you like, and does everything you enjoy, but that doesn't automatically mean they'll fall in love with you, because you will probably not be their perfect person that they seek."

    TL;DR your perfect lover may have a different perfect lover in mind other than you.
  • SchitzoSchitzo
    They're somethin' else.
    That's not what's bugging me, Vorpy. What's bugging me is how counter intuitive my situation with her is. We really should have nothing to do with each other, be it platonicly or romantically. Maybe she missed the memo. Who knows. Don't want to be rude by telling her to piss off, though maybe I should.
  • InsanityAddictInsanityAddict
    Diet NEET
    Are you hanging out solo with her, or within a group? If it's solo, try to talk to her and if she keeps responding apathetically, slowly cut her loose. If you're not socially skillful yourself, someone who is even more awkward is poison to your self-esteem. If she blanket-invites everyone, use her as a tool to get to know more people(if she ignores you, you can pretty much do this pretty much guilt-free).
  • JG_PunkJG_Punk
    edited 2011-05-13 19:40:49
    YO YO YO U CAN'T C ME BOUT TO SPIT SUMTIN' STOOPID!
    Let me give my imput on this.  Good looking girls tend to be BORING

    Me? My two requirements is that they're A) DTF and B) nerdy/hipster
  • IanExMachinaIanExMachina
    edited 2011-05-13 19:42:36
    I am Dr. Ned who is totally not Dr. Zed in disguise.
    DTF?

    Dirty Transsexual filth?
    Damned tyrannosaurus fucker? 
  • Wicked223Wicked223
    We Played Some Open Chords and Rejoiced, For the Earth Had Circled the Sun Yet Another Year
    Down To Fuck.
  • JG_PunkJG_Punk
    edited 2011-05-13 19:44:01
    YO YO YO U CAN'T C ME BOUT TO SPIT SUMTIN' STOOPID!
    ^ Thank you

    You might think its shallow but like I said, looks don't matter, I don't want a boring romance.  And if they're not boring I can usually let requirement A slide.
  • IanExMachinaIanExMachina
    edited 2011-05-13 19:44:28
    I am Dr. Ned who is totally not Dr. Zed in disguise.
    Oh well i'd still have said yes to my options but hey, that works just as well.

    Also hipster, erghh, most especially hipster attitude. Or forced affectations.


  • JG_PunkJG_Punk
    YO YO YO U CAN'T C ME BOUT TO SPIT SUMTIN' STOOPID!
    ^When I say hipster I actually mean "art student"
  • IanExMachinaIanExMachina
    I am Dr. Ned who is totally not Dr. Zed in disguise.
    I'm not sure if that makes it better.
    I've not met an art student who wasn't a huge twat, then again I've never met a sports studies (or whatever the Degree course is for that) student who wasn't one either.
  • JG_PunkJG_Punk
    YO YO YO U CAN'T C ME BOUT TO SPIT SUMTIN' STOOPID!
    ^ I got my associates in 2d animation, I'm a former art student, then again I think wannabe cartoonists/comicbook illustrators seem to be the exception to the rule.
  • IanExMachinaIanExMachina
    I am Dr. Ned who is totally not Dr. Zed in disguise.
    Ok by art student I was going for classics + media, as those are the ones most popular at the uni I went to.

    No idea about animators personality, as their course was mixed 'computers' (image manipulation)and 'drawing' (not literally but traditional styles of doing it).

    Different stereotypes across the pond maybe don't translate?
  • JG_PunkJG_Punk
    YO YO YO U CAN'T C ME BOUT TO SPIT SUMTIN' STOOPID!
    ^Nah I'm thinking the fashion students are pretentious fucks.
  • GLORIOUSLeaderGLORIOUSLeader
    When in Turkey, ROCK THE FUCK OUT
    Same here. And hipster =/= art student; they just tend to overlap quite a bit. Both like writing poetry, but only one listens to Animal Collective

    /lolstereotypes
    /listenstoAnimalCollective
  • IanExMachinaIanExMachina
    edited 2011-05-13 20:00:51
    I am Dr. Ned who is totally not Dr. Zed in disguise.
    ^^ I agree with that wholeheartedly.

    The only student group I'd have loved to strangle more was those from Cambridge University, fucking spoilt rich twats. Arggh such lack of knowledge at how the real world works due to family money, and yet they'll have every gear in life greased by family and money.
  • glennmagusharveyglennmagusharvey
    Creature - Florida Dragon Turtle Human
    What do you mean by down to fuck?  Intending to have sex right off the bat, or open to doing it anytime?
  • AHRAHR
    This happened to me once. The lack of chemistry actually made me happy, because I was already dating someone at the time.
  • JG_PunkJG_Punk
    YO YO YO U CAN'T C ME BOUT TO SPIT SUMTIN' STOOPID!
    ^^Just open to the idea of it.
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