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My dad just looked through all my stuff.
Apparently while my mom and I were getting my Grandfather from the hospital, my dad though it fit to look through all of my stuff, in my backpack at least.
When I raised objections to this, he said, and this is his exact words, "I will punch you if you say anything".
He looked throughout all of my backpack and grilled me on the contents. I can't believe this man. Any papers in it were used to launch some kind "WHAT IS THIS TELL ME NOW" offensive on me.
When I raised objections to this, he said, and this is his exact words, "I will punch you if you say anything".
And this man has the audacity--the fucking gall--to say I'm the one abusing him.
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That said, what sort of papers did he highlight, may I ask?
I say this not because your father went through your belongings--that's to be expected when you're 15--but because of the threats of physical harm.
And that's really all I have to say on the matter.
If you aren't willing to call CP, then maybe try scaring him into thinking that if he touches you, he may leave evidence
Ica: You underestimate him. He's not scared of anything and the Bible/Christianity/Conservatism continues to make him think he's perfectly in the right.
Anon: Not really, at least not for a long time.
Ninja: My life is no where near as shitty as his, trust me.
Commando: I thought this was normal.
And my parents do a lot of things for me...I'd rather just put up with it if it means living in a much better house than anything CPS would throw me into.
Everest/Trash: Okay, so they are somewhat abusive. But what doesn't make sense is that they do such for me.
When people hear about abusive parents, they think an old house not kept up to good conditions, neglectful parents who do nothing, children scared of their lives hiding in their rooms or corners, and other horrible things.
They don't think about a lawyer, his normal and fun wife, and his kid. Or parents who buy their only son everything from all next-gen systems and a computer mainly for him. My dad wants to buy me 22-inch LCD HDTV, and my own gaming laptop. They say if I get a scholarship to a college, I can get a new Nissan 370Z with my college fund. My parents moved from a spacious 3000-square foot house to a 1500-square foot apartment (a very nice one, but much smaller home nonetheless) partially so I could go to a better school. If it wasn't for my dad, I would not live reading and science as much as I do now. My parents buy me everything I want almost as soon as I want it. The house is always kept stocked with food, my parents will go without so I can have things I want, for the love of god, they always put me first, and themselves after.
These are not the kinds of things abusive parents do. At all.
So it's kinda hard for me to believe they're abusive. Especially since I would lose all these things if CPS hauled me out of there.