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Social stuff

IcalasariIcalasari
edited 2012-10-13 21:52:15 in Meatspace
No rainbow star

A friend of mine wants to treat me to dinner for my birthday


I said fine. Now if it was just a treating me thing, then fine. However, she wants to invite two of her friends (one of which is a mutual friend). She is ONLY paying for me though


So I said sure and said I'm going to invite two of my friends


 


She's saying no, only I get to decide who comes


To my birthday


 


So who's being the idiot here? Or if it's both of us, what things are we both doing wrong here?

Comments

  • CrimsonCrimson
    Give us fire! Give us ruin! Give us our glory!

    Ask her why she thinks she's the only that decides who can come.

  • IcalasariIcalasari
    No rainbow star

    She hates there being too many people and wants a social situation to go exactly the way she wants

  • glennmagusharveyglennmagusharvey
    Creature - Florida Dragon Turtle Human

    It's for your birthday?


    If so, then you have more right than she does to decide who comes.

  • NyktosNyktos
    a little muffled

    In her mind, she's throwing you a birthday thing, therefore she gets to plan it and decide who comes.


    In your mind, duh, it's your birthday, you're in charge.


    Hard to really say either of you is in the right or wrong. Humans gonna hume.

  • glennmagusharveyglennmagusharvey
    edited 2012-10-13 23:54:53
    Creature - Florida Dragon Turtle Human

    Humans gonna hume.


    > hume


    http://images.wikia.com/eternaldaughter/images/e/eb/Hume_mia.png" alt="Hume (Eternal Daughter)" width="320" height="240" />

  • NyktosNyktos
    a little muffled

    I was actually thinking FFTA2, but I guess that works too.

  • DYREDYRE

  • IcalasariIcalasari
    No rainbow star

    ^^^^ Ah, so that explains why I'm not sure of the social rules about this... Because we're both right and wrong at the same time... THAT'S always fun...

  • ┻━┻ ︵ ヽ(`Д´）╯︵ ┻━┻┻━┻ ︵ ヽ(`Д´）╯︵ ┻━┻
    Tableflipper

    I believe the best method to use here is guilt tripping your friend.


    uh


    I mean


    that like


    sucks

  • IcalasariIcalasari
    edited 2012-10-14 01:08:24
    No rainbow star

    ^ Actually, she's pulling that guilt tripping crap on me herself


    Going to move this to PM as she knows this site exists, and PM is the only way to keep drama from resulting due to the thread itself. Want in? Post here and I'll add you

  • FuschlatzFuschlatz
    A Mind You Do NOT Want To Read

    Count me in, I hate situations like these and I'd love to try and help out if I can.

  • ClockworkUniverseClockworkUniverse
    OOOooooOoOoOOoo, I'm a ghoOooOooOOOost!

    Sure, why not.

  • StormtroperStormtroper

    I'm in!

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